Most athletes spend hours on the field — working their footwork, conditioning their body, and perfecting their skills. But here’s the truth: the athletes who separate themselves don’t just train their body. They train their mind. Presented in partnership with Chill Life, here are the 3 mental skills every athlete needs to elevate their game.
Self-Talk
Your Inner Voice Is Your Coach
Every athlete has a voice inside their head — the question is whether that voice is working for them or against them. Self-talk is one of the most powerful and underused tools in an athlete’s arsenal. The words you repeat to yourself in the heat of competition directly shape how you perform.
When doubt creeps in after a mistake, elite athletes don’t spiral. They redirect. Instead of replaying the error, they shift their internal dialogue toward the next play, the next opportunity, the next moment to execute.
- Replace doubt with direction
- “Next play” beats “I messed up”
- Keep it short and powerful
What you say to yourself = how you perform.
Visualization
See It Before It Happens
The best athletes in the world see success before it happens — not just as a highlight reel in their head, but as a full mental rehearsal. Visualization is the practice of mentally walking yourself through game situations in vivid detail, feeling every movement, every decision, every outcome.
This isn’t wishful thinking. It’s mental training. When you visualize executing a skill correctly, you’re building the same neural pathways as physical repetition. Your brain doesn’t fully distinguish between the two. That means every mental rep counts.
- Picture success in detail
- Visualize game situations, not just highlights
- Feel the moment — make it real
Confidence starts in your mind.
Breathing
Control Your Breath, Control the Game
When the pressure is highest — fourth quarter, tied game, everything on the line — your breathing is the fastest path back to composure. Controlled breathing is a proven tool to regulate your nervous system, lower anxiety, and sharpen your focus in a matter of seconds.
It sounds simple, but most athletes have never been taught how to actually use their breath as a performance tool. The technique is straightforward: inhale for 4 seconds, exhale for 6. Reset before every play. The longer exhale activates your body’s natural calming response, helping you stay sharp under pressure instead of freezing up.
- Inhale 4 seconds
- Exhale 6 seconds
- Reset before every play
Calm players make better decisions.
Train Your Mind Like You Train Your Game
Physical talent gets you on the field. Mental fitness keeps you there. Start incorporating these three skills into your daily routine — before practice, before games, and in the moments that matter most. Your mind is your strongest muscle. It’s time to train it. Learn more at Chill Life and follow our partnership for more mental fitness content built specifically for lacrosse athletes.












